three years onwards (:
Tuesday, March 1, 2011 atTuesday, March 01, 2011
happyy three years tgt ! today marks the start of yet another brand new year ahead :D
here's a short video to mark this anniversary (:
many thanks to the pple for taking the photos !!
many <3 <3 <3 !
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im loving this season ! :D
Saturday, February 12, 2011 atSaturday, February 12, 2011
Being in God's rest means that although you may have a problem, you trust Him to take care of it. It means that you may have a situation that you don't understand, but you are not constantly trying to figure it out. It means you have a dream in your heart, but you are not hurry, you are not frustrated because it hasn't came to fruition yet. In other words, when you are really in God's rest, you know that God has you in the palm of His hand.
Joel Osteen's book( Become a better you), page 256
-posted by Ron on fb city campus group
many loves to many pple and many stuff (:
yr 2011 - full of goodies and surprises !
Sunday, January 2, 2011 atSunday, January 02, 2011
This new year would be filled with the goodness of my daddy god according to his riches stored up in heaven. It would be so satisfying, personally for me and it would not be a wasted year in my life. It will be of excitingg times, moments where i know i am in the right place at the right time. i will grow so strongly in my youth, heart and mind and with the pple around me. without stressful efforts will i come to greatter heights, reach to places i never thought i could. This year would show glimpse of the promising life that my future holds. i am going to walk as if it is going to be my favourite year yet !
i borrowed a book from a friend and it proved to relate very much to myself and can help me overcome issues. i shall present them in bite-size portions of the learning points i got so as to share them and remind myself strongly as i type them down here.
1. we all get nervous . Since young, i have been very conscious of what pple would think of me and how i presented myself to others. whether it was adequate, was i up to standard/expectations. but over the years you wonder if all that was impt, if these kept you happy when you think you passed. when the next second, you could just drop to rock bottom, being inconsistent with your feelings. opinions fluctuate and you cant please the whole world.
2. waiting for somebody to make you happy. this only courts and bring about disappointments when your happiness, cheerfulness and joy revolves around others. you set an expectation from the start and require others to achieve that. i have to tell myself to be happy first on my own, what others do and what happens then would bring about greater further joy to what you alrd have. this causes pure enjoyment without the first standard set to bring along disappointments (:
3. I CHOOSE HOW I FEEL. you decide how you react to certain incidents, be it good or bad. would you come out of it stronger or choose to dwell within. would you believe your mind is prone to negativity and there is a constant reminder of the bad so that you cannot move on to be at rest. would you give in and choose to dwell within. would you still be happy despite all ?
4. honesty better than lying to protect myself. appreciated when honesty is presented so that things can be done at hand so as not to lead to further displeasures/unhappiness. expressing anger by honesty provides a clear picture of what was done that provoked the displeasures. i am sure an extent will be done by both to compromise an avoidance of a similar situation. suppressing these unhappiness will only lead to an accumulated 'explosion' one day :D always make clear this is to resolve conflict, not establish victory lol
5. not be too serious with ourselves. laughing at ourselves is a way of showing a gesture of welcome, not hostility. being too conscious and serious prevents the opportunity to fully open up with others and getting close with the pple you want to get to know more of. when others act this way, you can tell that they are relaxed that they enjoy your presence in a way. look out for that ;)
i shall end off with these points being my resolutions for yr 2011 and adding on with placing down my pride to fully take up the initiative in the things that i do, smile more and making every word, thought and action count in this year 2011. (:
points by andrew mattews.
as the end of the year draws near
Monday, November 22, 2010 atMonday, November 22, 2010
Tho having much to look forward still to this year, there have been many instances in the past months that I would like to bring out to remember them by (:
one that is sure to be mentioned of this year would be the 21st bday celebrated all across the levels of friends of sec school till JC ! Im sure everyone had a very good time at their own bday celeb ! (: with one more special one to come, may he enjoy his to the utmost fun ! <3
Also, to know personally how much I have grown over the past months is surely amazing :D
The things I can handle now, which were not easily taken across by me, I now can do so with much less a struggle ! With an ongoing learning mindset, I cant wait to take in/go thru more of life's retarded events :D
I am beginning to learn to enjoy life to the fullest, knowing we only go thru 21yo or maybe even that moment once ever. you dun want to miss anything that you might have missed feeling sad, worried, anxious or just plain silly. whatever life throws, all will surely turn to good (:
proven in my 21 years of living and I am very satisfied at the moment cause imma gonna walkasif there is no fear in the present, no regret from the past and no worries for the future ! ;)
one thing I would dislike would be the last wave to the seasons I had, the pple that has blessed me much such as my intern work mates and my P1 lecturer Phili Woo last month. They were tough waves but with smiles all the same.
I know leaving each season is tough cause I have become comfortable, but w/o leaving will I not get to grow on and apply all that I have learnt. The pple I have met, the things I have learnt, they will be cherished and brought on to the next chapters of my life .
May each and every one of my loved ones be blessed with a life so filled with goodies and laughter that they have never imagined it can be and those that have touched or blessed me will continue to be great blessings to others around them (:
that vision was good. it was just for me. :D
learning points in this season!
Saturday, October 16, 2010 atSaturday, October 16, 2010
There are quite a couple of learning points I wana share that I got from the ppl or events ard me this season. Points are amended based on the impression I got and how it is recorded in my mind (might not be actual words said) :D
1.) A good friend's someone who wishes the best for you wholeheartedly, grieves with you in the down times and cheers you on when nothing else could be done. -rock kids orientation video.
2.) Do not give excuses for missing on one's appointment, go even if its of just one reason to, esp for the host/person. -past events
3.) Jesus isn't nice. He is kind, yet he disciplined and correct for the best of another. -sermon
4.) Keep learning and taking up the fastest, most efficient way of completing task at work w/o compromising on quality. -stan
5.) Do a spontaneous happening to remember the day by, such that you can recall the day twenty, thirty years down the road ! like eating 10 scoops of ice-cream on the 10/10/10 :D -el
6.) Give time to teach the knowledge that you hold, no matter how busy you might be. You never know how appreciative and grateful the learner will be. -ag
7.) Never too late to start building up your biceps and abs ! -pa
8.) Home is where you can be truly yourself, acting crazy and retarded with similar others. -family
9.) Think the best of the situation, who knows things might turn for the awesome (: -yl
10.) Learning is never-ending. Keep finding ways and grabbing moments to constantly be growingg ! :] -self
Im pleased. hee
